Life...not always peaches-n-cream my friend. Sometimes things happen to you that suck; is this wrong? Should things always go in a bump-free, nostalgic way? Would life be better if complications simply went away or were able to be dealt with quickly? Wold I really be a better person in a conflict-free world. (If you're in a conflict right now that sucks the life out of you, you're probrobly saying, "Why, yes. Yes, it would." I feel for you, and I get it.)
Obviously, I'm going to contend those statements above...not to look on the brighter-side, which would be lame, but to look on the benefits. It sucks, believe me, I know, but the benefits rock! Think about a butterfly, if someone lessens the struggle out of the cocoon, it will prob never fly because it never developed the muscles it needs to fly by struggling out of the cocoon. I really think the key is your individual choice in the way you perceive the situation...you get to choose to view the situation as something that is ruining your life or not...you get to choose to make it not feel like crap. End of the story...a conflict-free life would be boring...the end.
Obviously, I'm going to contend those statements above...not to look on the brighter-side, which would be lame, but to look on the benefits. It sucks, believe me, I know, but the benefits rock! Think about a butterfly, if someone lessens the struggle out of the cocoon, it will prob never fly because it never developed the muscles it needs to fly by struggling out of the cocoon. I really think the key is your individual choice in the way you perceive the situation...you get to choose to view the situation as something that is ruining your life or not...you get to choose to make it not feel like crap. End of the story...a conflict-free life would be boring...the end.
